Emerald the Terrible

After optimistically writing that post yesterday, I was treated to a display of Emerald's "bad" behaviour. It first occurred when I picked her up and took her downstairs, where she thought that she shouldn't be. So she hissed. I hissed back. She whipped her head around so fast that I think I'd have gotten a bite in the face if she'd been able to reach. I then tapped her gently on the nose, from which she recoiled and which stopped the hissing.

The next occurrence happened, again, when I picked her up. She hissed. I hissed back, and again did the light nose-tap. This time, there was no biting attempt.

That was the end of that for the day. A couple of times things happened that I think would normally have set off hissing, but she thought twice and didn't.

Today, she was lying on my lap, all blissed out, stretched over my arm and preventing me from typing. I decided to get up, and disturbed her, which provoked a gentle bite and a hiss. Repeat hiss back, repeat nose tap. That seemed to deal with it. No more episodes today, so far.

So far I think it's Me 3, Aggressive Kitty 0. The problem is that in her previous foster home, the humans were afraid of her, didn't know how to deal with her aggression, and basically let her do whatever she wanted. She has to re-learn here that the Humans are the Boss Cats, and she is the Much-Loved but Subordinate Cat.

Apart from the infrequent hissy fits, though, she is absolutely lovely. She is very vocal, gives little trilling meows, wants to be in proximity to a human 24-7, loves lap cuddles, purrs a lot, and is the sweetest little bundle of confection wrapped in a small black kitty-skin you'll ever see. I said it before, and I'll say it again, some lucky human is going to get a very special cat.

Comments

jaypo (not verified):

Hey, thinkie--is the hiss/nose-tap a standard technique to deal with kitty aggression?

Susanna:

jaypo: I've seen/heard hissing suggested by a couple of different sources, including the foster coordinator for the cat rescue I'm fostering Emerald through, and some documentation I received from the vet where Emerald was boarding. The nose tap is something cats understand: it's something their mothers would do to discipline them. It does NOT cause pain, and should not, but it speaks "volumes" in cat-language.

Heather (not verified):

Interesting - I've used that technique on my younger cat once in a while when she gets a little big for her britches, but I had never read about it before. My husband laughed at me when I told him I was asserting my position as "Alpha Cat." Glad to know I'm not nuts!

Susanna:

haha, Heather, no, you're not nuts. It's good to hear that another person is doing that too! It makes *me* feel less "nuts".

Actually though you will think I'm nuts when you hear this...I read today that licking is a sign of dominance, therefore, when one cat licks another, it's the licking one who is dominant. I gave Emerald a few swipes of my tongue on her face...blech...but whatever works!

Heather (not verified):

You know, I don't know that I'll try that one, although I suppose you could say my son has. Leading to one of those phrases-you-never-thought-you'd-say-until-you-became-a-parent, "If you don't want fur in your mouth, then don't lick the cat." I guess he thought he'd just try it out - on more than one occasion.

Susanna:

lol!

When I was growing up, we had a cat that *loved* human earwax. If allowed, she'd lick happily away at your ears for hours. We have a photo of her and my younger brother immortalizing this very strange habit of hers.

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